Love Unfiltered: Review of ‘Lover’ (Spoiler Alert!)

I was nervous at first because I didn’t know much about movie terminology, but at a friend’s recommendation, I decided to give movie reviews a try. This time, I’m discussing the movie “Lover,” which takes a novel approach to the subject of love. So prepare for spoilers and grab some popcorn!

Spoiler alert! We’re going deep into “Lover.” Watch it first if you want to avoid spoilers.

Forget the typical happily-ever-after romance. Lover delves into the ups and downs of a real-life relationship. The title is gender-neutral, reflecting the story’s focus on both perspectives. We meet Arun and Divya, who fall in love during college. But as they navigate careers, family dramas, and personal struggles, their love faces challenges. It goes beyond the usual love tales you see in Kollywood, standing out because it explores the difficulties of keeping a relationship strong amidst family, work, and friendships. It shows the complexities and challenges that come with love, making it a realistic and relatable story.

The movie kicks off with the protagonists falling in love during their college days. However, as they graduate and focus on their careers, the relationship encounters inevitable obstacles. Arun, the male lead, comes from a dysfunctional family with a troubled past, leading to his insecurities and a tendency to exert control over his lover, Divya. This control becomes suffocating for Divya, prompting her to resort to lies to avoid Arun’s anger. The birthday celebration highlights this perfectly: the initial joy feels absent by the end.

The story introduces Divya’s friends, who play an important role in challenging the depth and direction of her relationship with Arun. Their emphasis on the importance of freedom becomes a focal point, emphasizing that this value must not be compromised, not only for Divya but also for Arun. Despite Arun’s desire for such friendships, these statements, while powerful, do not resonate with him as strongly, adding layers of complexity to the entire story.

The film addresses the highs and lows of a relationship, shedding light on the impact of family dynamics on individuals. Arun’s mother’s parallel story adds depth to the narrative, showcasing her struggle to break free from a toxic relationship.

The movie subtly explores the different roles men play in relationships, depicting characters at various stages of personal growth and understanding. Arun’s father, consistently drunk and ill-treating, embodies one extreme. Arun, unknowingly causing harm in the name of love, represents another. Madan, who recognizes his mistakes and learns from them, stands as a contrasting figure. Finally, Harish emerges as a character who respects women’s spaces.

While the movie has its pacing issues, it delivers impactful emotions. You’ll feel the anger towards Arun’s father, Arun’s jealousy towards Madan, the liberation of Arun’s mother, and the pain of Divya. Even after their separation, you’ll sense the lingering feelings between Arun and Divya.

At the end, both Arun and Divya grow individually. Arun builds a successful cafe, while Divya overcomes her fear of surfing and her unsteadiness. They both find happiness and fulfilment in their own paths.

The movie concludes with a poignant quote: “Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle; love is a war; love is growing up.”

“Lover” sets itself apart by delving into the complexities of love that go beyond traditional “happily ever after” ends. For those looking for a thought-provoking love story, the film is an appealing one to watch due to its portrayal of complex relationships and strong emotional elements.

Cheers!

PS: Music was pleasing!

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