As the years pass, life begins to shift. People grow into their own world of families, careers, quiet burdens. Part and Parcels of life. Some stay close. Some slowly drift and some quietly fade into memory.
Not every relationship lasts. Not every connection deepens. Some are meant for a moment, some built around shared goals, places, or seasons. They come, they serve, they move on.
But every once in a while, a deeper bond takes root. Not instantly. Not loudly. But slowly across years, shared silences, mistakes, and growth. These are the connections where presence matters more than performance.
They don’t demand attention. They hold space. They evolve as both people do.
Such bonds are rare. They require tending, trust, and truth. But they cannot be forced or demanded. They grow only where both hands are willing.
Only built with consistency, humility, and depth. They are the ones who’ve seen us through different versions, stayed through the updates.
In life, having even two or three such people maybe quiet kind of success. And even if such bonds don’t exist yet, begin now. Build! As Charles once said
To get what you want, you have to deserve what you want.
It holds true for all forms of connection. The work done in solitude, with sincerity, is never wasted. Depth doesn’t arrive by chance. It is built and it is returned.
No matter how isolated you are and how lonely you feel, if you do your work truly and conscientiously, unknown friends will come and seek you. — Carl Jung
Cheers
PS: எனக்கு வேற வழி தெரியல ஆத்தா!
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