Beyond Sisyphus: Finding Balance Beyond the Grind!

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A man pushing the rocks to the top of the mountain

Recently, I have become too engrossed in my work and various miscellaneous tasks that demand my attention. They consume a significant portion of my time, leaving me with little opportunity for personal pursuits. As the day draws to a close, I find myself feeling incredibly exhausted and depleted.

A recent realization has altered my perspective. I used to firmly believe that by consistently giving just one percent more effort each day, I would achieve significant progress. While this principle may hold true for many individuals, I have come to realize that it doesn’t always work for me. There are days when I experience a surge of positive energy and unwavering motivation, driving me to push beyond my limits. However, there are also days within a month when exhaustion takes hold and I find myself in a state of lethargy, resembling a couch potato.

Amidst this exhaustion, I can’t help but wonder how others manage to engage in moonlighting – taking on additional work or side jobs – while maintaining their energy and motivation. Perhaps some individuals possess an innate desire to hustle, while others may feel compelled or coerced into doing so. In our contemporary, fast-paced society, the notion of hustling has evolved and expanded. The present era of hustling is marked by an unwavering drive for success, unrelenting ambition, and ceaseless dedication across multiple facets of life.

People are motivated by the hunger for financial stability, personal growth, ambition, and recognition, and often they get sucked into this never-ending rat race. Thanks to technology, social media, and the gig economy, the hustle game has been cranked up a notch, blurring the line between work and personal life. It’s like a wild rollercoaster ride, with everyone vying to stay ahead of the game and make their mark.

The connection between hustling and the myth of Sisyphus becomes evident as the ceaseless pursuit of success and material gain resembles Sisyphus’ repetitive task. This relentless cycle of striving for external achievements without finding a deeper purpose can lead to a sense of emptiness and disillusionment. In the world of hustling, individuals can become trapped in a never-ending loop of chasing fleeting goals and external validation, neglecting the quest for personal fulfillment.

Moreover, the reality is that the hustle game doesn’t always live up to its glamorous social media portrayal. Behind the perfectly curated images of success and achievements, there lies a different story. The pressure to constantly showcase busyness and accomplishments can deceive us into thinking that a fast-paced, hustling lifestyle is the ultimate path to happiness. However, I’m not entirely convinced that perception alone can guide us accurately. While some individuals do find fulfillment and satisfaction in their work and hustling endeavors, others may grapple with a lack of happiness despite their relentless efforts.

In Naval Ravikant’s renowned book, “The Almanack of Naval Ravikant,” I recall a striking line where he states:

You’re not going to get rich renting out your time. You must own equity – a piece of the business – to gain your financial freedom

According to Naval, true wealth and financial abundance come from owning assets and leveraging them to generate income, rather than being dependent on a linear exchange of hours for a fixed wage. This statement hits me straight in the head every time.

However, with all the work and the side hustles, our hard-earned money seems to vanish into thin air as we succumb to purchasing things we don’t truly require. As the saying goes, human desires seem to have no bounds. Everywhere we look, products are prominently displayed, enticing us through sight and sound. We don’t even have to search for them; they find their way into our lives effortlessly. It reminds me of a line from a K-Drama (Reborn Rich) where a character remarks that people often buy based on their wants, not their needs.

In a world driven by consumerism, we find ourselves constantly surrounded by material temptations that test our ability to resist unnecessary purchases. Despite our sincere intentions, it often feels as if our hard-earned money slips through our fingers, leaving behind a hollow feeling of dissatisfaction. As we journey through life, we are bombarded by persuasive advertisements and societal pressures that influence our decisions. In the face of these challenges, it becomes essential for us to pause and contemplate the choices we make and the genuine value they offer.

While I don’t have the exact quote from Morgan Housel, I believe he mentions in his book that achieving a certain level of independence relies heavily on managing expectations and living within or below one’s financial means. The ability to strike a balance between aspirations and practicality plays a key role in fostering financial stability and working towards personal independence.

In our journey through the hustle culture, let us remember that hustle, when approached with intention and mindfulness, can be a powerful tool for personal and professional growth. It is crucial, however, to recognize that hustle alone does not guarantee happiness or fulfillment. By redefining our relationship with hustle, embracing a holistic perspective on success, and prioritizing our overall well-being, we can transform the hustle culture into a means of achieving a purposeful and deeply satisfying life.

Cheers!

PS: One memorable scene from the movie “Aruvi

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Fashion’s Hidden Costs!

The trend of clothing purchases has shifted, leading to overflowing closets and environmental concerns. Factors like globalization, fast fashion, online shopping, and social media influence contribute to excessive clothing consumption. With around 30% of clothes unworn, it’s crucial to buy less, rent, support sustainable brands, and donate/recycle to reduce environmental impact and textile waste.

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A wardrobe with clothes
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In the olden days (when I was young), it was common to purchase clothes only on special occasions such as festivals, birthdays, or other noteworthy events. In a year’s span, I would scarcely acquire a handful of fresh garments, barely enough to keep my wardrobe updated. However, the trend of clothing purchases has undergone a significant shift in recent times.

As I cleaned out my closet, I was taken aback by the sheer number of old clothes I discovered. I’m honestly baffled by how I ended up with so many clothes, and the crazy part is that I hardly ever wear most of them! It’s like they just sit there, gathering dust and occupying the space in my closet. Some could be repurposed for cleaning or other uses, but a significant amount remained. While we used to sell some of them in exchange for utensils, it made me wonder how other households dispose of their excess clothing.

Folded clothes
Photo: Corporat Comics

Instead of buying clothes based on what we actually need, we often get lured into grabbing them solely because of the tempting sales and discounts. It’s like our brains go into bargain-hunting mode, and before we know it, our closets are overflowing with impulse purchases. The rise of fast fashion has led to a significant upsurge in clothing purchases all around the globe. This surge can be attributed to various factors that have reshaped the industry.

Firstly, the globalization of fashion has played a pivotal role in making clothing more affordable and accessible to a wider range of consumers. The rapid expansion of fast fashion brands has perfectly tapped into this trend, offering stylish and inexpensive clothing options that are quickly churned out and easily discarded when no longer in vogue. Astonishingly, according to the Ellen MacArthur Foundation, the production of clothing has doubled over the past 15 years, reaching an astounding annual total of 100 billion garments.

The convenience of online shopping has revolutionized the way we purchase clothes, making it easier than ever before. With just a few clicks, one can browse through countless options and have items delivered right to their doorstep. Additionally, the power of social media cannot be underestimated when it comes to influencing shopping habits. The emergence of platforms like Instagram and TikTok has transformed the fashion landscape.

As individuals, we are constantly exposed to new trends and styles. The influence of fashion influencers on these platforms is undeniable, as they showcase the latest looks and inspire us to update our wardrobes. According to a survey conducted by Ipsos, a staggering 65% of consumers feel compelled to regularly refresh their clothing to keep up with ever-changing fashion trends.

Pile of clothes all dumped, messy

Despite the surge in clothing purchases, a significant chunk of these garments end up unused, as per a report by the Waste and Resources Action Programme (WRAP). Surprisingly, around 30% of the clothes hanging in the average person’s wardrobe remain unworn. The reason behind this pile-up of untouched clothes is a mix of factors that include our impulsive shopping habits, ever-changing fashion preferences, and the relentless pressure to stay on top of the latest trends. It’s a wild combination that leads to a wardrobe full of outfits we hardly ever wear.

The fashion industry and the disposal of unused clothes hold a significant responsibility for environmental pollution. Shockingly, approximately 10% of all clothing produced every year meets its untimely demise in landfills, accounting for a massive 92 million tons of discarded garments. As mentioned earlier, most discarded clothes end up in landfills, where they decompose and release methane, a potent greenhouse gas that contributes to climate change. Additionally, the decomposition process releases toxic chemicals from synthetic fabrics, further polluting the environment.

Moreover, the production of synthetic fabrics, such as polyester, contributes to water pollution. The production process involves the use of chemicals that can contaminate water sources, harming aquatic ecosystems and affecting human health. The UNEP estimates that the fashion industry is responsible for 20% of industrial water pollution globally.

There are several techniques that we can all use to reduce our impact on the planet. One effective way to achieve this is by embracing the concept of buying less clothing. It’s true that everywhere we turn, there are sales, flashy ads, and trends that make us want to splurge on new outfits. However, amidst all the temptation, we can make a conscious effort to try to rein it in.

Another alternative is to explore clothing rental services or borrowing options. Renting or borrowing clothes allows us to try out new trends and styles without committing to purchasing them outright. Additionally, supporting sustainable clothing brands is crucial. Many brands now focus on using recycled materials and implementing practices that have a lower environmental impact.

When we find ourselves no longer in need of certain clothing items, it is essential to donate them to charities or recycle them. By doing so, we actively participate in reducing the volume of clothing that ends up in landfills, thus mitigating the environmental harm caused by textile waste.

In a world where the seductive allure of fashion constantly entices, it requires strength to resist the urge for excessive clothing purchases. However, it is within our grasp to make a difference.

Cheers!

PS: BTW, what’s up with your wardrobe?

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Deep Work, Deep Rest: The Ultimate Productivity Hack!

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Two man working with laptops,
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Over the course of history, work has undergone a profound transformation. In earlier times, the majority of occupations revolved around physical labor, enabling individuals to develop a level of familiarity and perform tasks almost instinctively. However, in our modern era, work has evolved to emphasize intellectual and cognitive tasks that demand qualities like creativity, innovation, decision-making, and sustained mental engagement.

In today’s business landscape, competition has reached new heights due to globalization and technological progress. These factors have expanded market opportunities and increased the number of players striving for success. Businesses and individuals must continuously search for ways to stand out, innovate, and maintain a competitive edge. Surviving in the modern era extends beyond financial considerations alone. To remain relevant and meet the growing expectations, a significant amount of energy is required to embrace change, adopt new technologies, and remain adaptable in uncertain circumstances.

As individuals, we are often constrained to around four hours of focused and intense thinking per day, a concept known as “Deep work” according to Cal Newport. But, people often feel pressured to work excessively, sometimes exceeding 50, 80, 120 hours per week or even more. Indeed, it often leads to burnout, and choosing to rest in the midst of life’s busyness becomes an act of rebellion, pushing back against the never-ending demands placed on us.

Naval Ravikant offers an additional perspective on the same.

A lion and lioness in the forest
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Nobody really works 80 to 120 hours a week at high output, with mental clarity. Your brain breaks down. You won’t have good ideas. The way people tend to work most effectively, especially in knowledge work, is to sprint as hard as they can while they feel inspired to work, and then rest. They take long breaks. It’s more like a lion hunting and less like a marathoner running. You sprint and then you rest. You reassess and then you try again. You end up building a marathon of sprints.Naval

In a world that values productivity above everything, embracing rest is like making a rebellious statement, declaring that our well-being matters most. Contrary to common belief, rest is not a hindrance to productivity; it is the catalyst that unlocks our true potential. It is through rest that we recharge our physical and mental capacities, enabling us to approach our tasks with renewed vigor and efficiency.

Rest when you’re weary. Refresh and renew yourself, your body, your mind, your spirit. Then get back to work.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Resting is all about taking a break, pausing, and engaging in activities that promote relaxation, rejuvenation, and recovery. It’s about intentionally stepping away from work or responsibilities to recharge ourselves physically and mentally. Resting can come in various forms, such as enjoying hobbies, practicing mindfulness, or simply taking time to do nothing at all. Its not about switching from meetings to Excel sheets or something else, which also requires focus and skill. By valuing and embracing rest, we can lead more balanced, fulfilling lives in an ever-changing and demanding world.

Cheers!

PS: How much rest is enough?

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Tidy Up Your Headspace: Mental Decluttering Hacks!

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A picture of men and women looking at each other

There was one popular show that was recently released on Netflix called Beef. That was the story of two individuals who got into a road rage incident. Both of them were feeling immense pressure from their day-to-day activities, and they allowed their anger and frustration to turn into aggression. This resulted in the loss of everything they had and worked for from the very beginning. This story highlighted the devastating consequences of not resolving issues within ourselves, especially when distressing feelings are left unaddressed and allowed to spiral out of control.

The human mind is constantly bombarded with a load of information from the media, social media, and personal experiences. All this information can accumulate over time and clutter our minds, making it difficult for us to focus on important goals. Just like a messy room can make it difficult to find things, a cluttered mind can lead to stress, anxiety, anger, etc. Therefore, it is important to remove unwanted things from the mind to stay focused and calm.

One of the main benefits of mental decluttering is improved cognitive function. When the mind is cluttered with unnecessary information, it can become overwhelmed and lose its ability to process new information efficiently. This can lead to forgetfulness, confusion, and difficulty in decision-making.

Another benefit of mental elimination is enhanced emotional balance. By removing unwanted things from the mind, it becomes easier to focus on positive thoughts and emotions, which can lead to a more positive outlook on life and improved mental health.

A smoke in black ground
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There are several different methods that can be used for mental elimination.

#1 Writing down unwanted thoughts and emotions can help us externalize them and make them easier to deal with. This can be done through journaling, creative writing, or simply jotting down notes. Writing can also help organize thoughts and ideas, making it easier to process information and stay focused.

#2 Exercise and physical activity can also be used for mental elimination. Exercise releases endorphins, which are natural mood enhancers, and physical activities such as walking, running, etc can also help us distract the mind from unwanted thoughts and emotions.

#3 Meditation involves focusing the mind on a particular thought or object while eliminating other distractions. This can help us to clear the mind and reduce stress and anxiety.

#4 Spending time in nature or engaging in creative activities, such as painting or playing music, can help clear the mind and release suppressed emotions.

#5 Practicing gratitude is another way to shift our focus away from negative thoughts and emotions.

#6 Engaging in social activities and spending time with friends and loved ones can help us reduce stress and anxiety and provide a sense of support, relief, and community.

However, it is important to recognize that not all techniques may work equally well for everyone. What may be effective for one person may not necessarily be the same for another. Therefore, it is crucial to explore and experiment with different methods to find the one that works best for you personally. It may take some trial and error, but the effort is worth it when you find a technique that helps you achieve a clearer and more peaceful state of mind.

Cheers!

PS: Ending it with a verse from a song

ஓடும் தண்ணியில பாசியில்லையே
உணர்ச்சி கொட்டிபுட்டா நோயும் இல்லயே!

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Hillside!

The picturesque hill station Ooty in Tamil Nadu, India, with its pleasant climate and lush greenery, attracts tourists seeking respite. Humans have the ability to modify their environment, but must also prioritize preservation for future generations.

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Last week, I visited Ooty, which is a beautiful hill station located in the state of Tamil Nadu, India. It is surrounded by lush green valleys, misty hills, and tea plantations. The town has a pleasant climate throughout the year, which makes it a popular destination for tourists looking for a break from the heat of the plains.

A sunset picture
Photo by Sunandhini

Next to the place I stayed, there were carrot, strawberry, and beans. The air was fresh and surrounded by lush green hills—a breathtaking view. This place is usually crowded in the summer, but it was extra crowded on the weekends. Maybe people in the plains couldn’t tolerate the heat. There was too much traffic and crowds in most tourist spots. The heavy traffic on the hilly road released an unpleasant odor that mixed with the mist, making it suffocating to breathe.

There are so many animals in the area that have adapted to the environment since they can’t modify it, but we, as humans, have the ability to change it. The reason we can modify our environment to a greater extent than other animals is because of our higher level of intelligence and skill set.

Due to their limited abilities, some animals are not as capable as humans when it comes to modifying their environment. Consequently, these animals must adapt to their surroundings to survive. They depend on nature for their livelihood and therefore have a natural inclination not to damage it, unlike some humans. Some animals, however, do cause minor modifications to their surroundings, such as overgrazing or relocating rocks.

Early civilizations cleared forests for cultivation, and during the industrial revolution, the usage of machines increased, which led to the use of fossil fuels. The impact on nature has been particularly significant in the last century due to the increased population and expansion of industries.

It’s known fact that humans are just guests here on Earth, and our existence here is temporary. We are a small part of the planet’s vast ecosystem, and our actions have a significant impact on the environment. Although we have the ability to modify our surroundings to meet our needs, we must remember that we are not the only species on this planet.

People are becoming more aware of the importance of taking care of the environment and preserving natural resources for future generations. Governments, organizations, and individuals all over the world are working to develop sustainable practices and reduce the harm caused by human activities to nature.

Cheers

PS: Perhaps modifying the environment is ingrained in our genes for survival, rather than preserving it. (Lol)

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Taxing Cows’ Burps and Farts: Climate Change!

Ruminant animals, like cows, produce methane and other greenhouse gases. Some propose taxing farmers for livestock emissions to combat climate change.

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Did you know that burps and farts, which are common bodily functions, could potentially be subject to taxation? As governments and policymakers worldwide seek innovative approaches to address environmental issues like climate change, unconventional ideas, such as taxing emissions from these bodily functions of ruminants, have emerged. Let me explain.

Ruminant animals (which include cows, buffalo, sheep, goats, camels, giraffes, etc.) are mammals with a specialized digestive system where the stomach is divided into four chambers: the rumen, reticulum, omasum, and abomasum. Digestion is the process of breaking down food and absorbing the nutrients from it. However, the ability to break down food is not the same for all organisms. They quickly swallow the food, store it in their rumen for fermentation, and then regurgitate it back into their mouth for chewing through a process called rumination. It allows them to effectively digest the plant material. During the process, microbial fermentation breaks down the cellulose and hemicellulose into simpler substances.

A group of cows
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This fermentation process produces gases such as carbon dioxide (CO2) and methane (CH4) as byproducts. Methane is also released from them through burping while bringing food from the chambers for cud chewing or while farting. Apart from this, they also produce nitrous oxide (N2O) as a natural byproduct of their digestive and metabolic processes, primarily through urine and manure.

The emission of methane, carbon dioxide, and nitrous oxide is a potent greenhouse gases with global warming potential. However, it depends on various factors such as type of feed, diet composition, animal size, age, and health. Ruminant cattle can produce around 250–500 liters of methane per day. It is said that cattle feeding on fibrous such as grass or forage tend to produce more methane than others who fed on high concentrates. 

Ruminants naturally release greenhouse gases during their digestion, which is known as enteric fermentation. However, because methane is a powerful greenhouse gas that contributes to global warming, efforts are being made to find ways to reduce methane emissions from ruminants while keeping them healthy and productive. These efforts may involve improving their diet, making their food more efficient, and exploring genetic or dietary changes to reduce methane emissions during digestion.

An interesting and surprising proposal has been submitted to the New Zealand government, suggesting the taxation of farmers for their livestock’s emissions as a means to combat climate change. The country has a higher population of livestock (6.3 million) compared to its human population (5.1 million). Under the plan, farmers would need to cover the costs associated with the emissions of gases released by their animals, such as nitrous oxide from cattle urine and methane from cow farts and burps. Farmers may have the opportunity to offset their emissions and earn credits by planting crops, including trees, that help to reduce carbon emissions.

However, farmers would need to take responsibility for the environmental impact of their livestock, which includes emissions from cow burps and urine. They may also have the chance to earn credits by planting crops or trees to offset carbon emissions. These measures can help reduce the environmental impact of livestock production and address climate change. It’s important to explore innovative solutions and work together with policymakers and farmers to minimize greenhouse gas emissions from agriculture while maintaining sustainable farming practices.

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Human Composting!

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Compost is a dark, crumbly, and nutrient-rich material that is created through the natural decomposition of organic materials, such as food scraps, yard waste, crop residues, and animal manure. Composting is the process of intentionally managing and accelerating the decomposition of organic materials under controlled conditions to produce compost, which is used as a valuable soil amendment and fertilizer in agriculture, horticulture, and gardening.

Composting involves the breakdown of organic materials by microorganisms, such as bacteria, fungi, and other decomposers, into simpler organic compounds through a series of biological and chemical reactions. These microorganisms require oxygen, moisture, and the right temperature to thrive and decompose the organic materials. Composting can occur through aerobic (with oxygen) or anaerobic (without oxygen) processes, depending on the management practices and conditions.

Pit composting, vermicomposting, windrow composting, sheet composting, in-vessel composting, industrial composting, and bokashi composting are different types of composting we have heard of. The main raw materials for the above-mentioned techniques are food waste, dried plant parts, and animals wastes.

Human composting is the natural process when dead people are buried in the soil, and it takes days to decompose. It was quite shocking to learn and read about how it’s done artificially by a company called Recompose. The company history dates back to 2011, and operations began in Seattle around 2019. It is a relatively new and innovative process that involves the natural decomposition of human remains to create nutrient-rich compost. It is an alternative to traditional burial and cremation methods, and it is gaining attention. They are operating in very few places in the United States yet to branch out in other places.

The process of human composting followed by them are

#1. The body is laid into a vessel along with the wood chips, alfalfa, and straw. The amount of carbon, nitrogen, and oxygen in the vessel is controlled for the growth of essential microbes and bacteria that are involved in decomposition.

#2. After five to seven weeks, the organic material has been broken down into soil.

#3. The fresh soil is removed to a curing bin for several more weeks to age.

#4. After being aerated, the soil is screened to remove any non-organisms such as metal fillings, pacemakers, and artificial joint.

#5. Once completed, the soil can be used to enrich the land, and it is very similar to top soil..

I am not quite sure about the working and operations of vessels. Each body creates up to one cubic yard of soil and they are used in nurseries, forests, etc. The carbon dioxide emissions can be minimized compared to a cremation or conventional burial system. However, it may take some time for this approach to gain acceptance in other cultures and countries where burial and cremation practices are deeply rooted in tradition and beliefs.

As we continue to address waste management challenges and environmental sustainability, human composting presents an opportunity for a more eco-friendly and meaningful end-of-life option. It challenges our conventional notions of burial and cremation and encourages us to rethink our relationship with nature and our own mortality. It may require more patience and open-mindedness, but it holds the potential for a more sustainable and respectful approach to our final resting place on this earth. Nonetheless, composting remains a simple and effective way to reduce waste, conserve natural resources, and promote a circular economy, contributing to a more sustainable future for all.

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Letters

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Letters are one form of communication tool used to convey messages, emotions, and ideas between people. Although the world has moved towards more modern methods of communication like emails and texting, letters still hold a special place in our hearts as a personal and meaningful way to connect with others.

I remember writing letters when I was in boarding school. Though the landline was available and we were allowed to speak once a week to our family, Sister Angella (the warden) recommended we write letters. Inland letters will be given to us at the beginning of the weekend, and the written letters will be collected at the end of the weekend for postal service. I used to write to my parents, but in the beginning, I didn’t know what to write. I would just fill pages with what happened and nothing more. I wasn’t having fun until I received a reply letter from my father. Though there was nothing special in that letter, it did make me happy. I was on cloud nine receiving replies from them. Then I started writing to a few of my old friends and cousins.

An Indian Inland letter
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I maintained the habit of writing letters in high school, but at a different boarding school. The habit still continued. All my creativity went into those letters, from designing the paper to writing attractive salutations to ending the letter with a warm closing. It was helpful to bring out tough, hidden conversations at a different boarding school. It was helpful to bring out tough, hidden conversations and reflect on oneself. Maybe I am just a millennial. It also had a ripple effect on a few of my friends (lol). I do write letters these days, but to myself through emails.

One of the most important benefits of writing a letter is the ability to express yourself freely and without interruption. Unlike a conversation or text, a letter allows one to gather their thoughts, choose their words carefully, and convey their message clearly. It also provides a way to express emotions that may be difficult to communicate in person, such as gratitude, apology, etc.

Cheers!

PS: Letters are always SPECIAL!

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Cooling Down vs. Heating Up: The Heat Wave Paradox!

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Heat waves are periods of abnormally high temperatures that occur when the maximum temperatures of a station reach 40oC or more for the plains, 37oC or more for coastal areas, and 30oC or more for hilly regions, according to Indian Meteorological Department (IMD) .

They typically occur during the summer months, when the sun is high in the sky and the days are longer. Heat waves are a weather phenomenon that is caused by various factors, including atmospheric conditions, humidity levels, and weather patterns. These factors can cause temperatures to rise and persist for an extended period, leading to heat waves.

The buildings are so close to one another, and there are no big windows for proper ventilation. There is discomfort, dehydration, and stress when there is rise in temperature. This could leads to an increased demand for air conditioning units to relieve ourselves from the freaking temperature. AC helps to improve comfort levels, reduce stress, and improve overall well-being and productivity.

The history of air conditioners dates back to ancient civilizations, where people used various methods to cool their living spaces. For example, ancient Egyptians used reeds soaked in water and hung them in windows to cool the air as it blew in (poor man’s A/C till date), while ancient Romans used an aqueduct system to circulate cool water through the walls of their homes.

The modern air conditioner, as we know it today, was invented in 1902 by Willis Carrier, an American engineer. Carrier was working for a printing company in New York City. He was tasked with finding a way to control the humidity in the printing room, which was causing the paper to expand and contract. Carrier’s solution was to create a system that circulated cool air over coils filled with cold water, which would remove the humidity from the air.

The first air conditioning units were large and expensive and were primarily used in commercial and industrial settings. It wasn’t until the 1920s and 30s that air conditioning began to be installed in homes, and it remained a luxury item for many years due to its high cost.

A wall with outdoor of Air conditioners
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The basic principle of air conditioners has remained the same since Carrier’s invention. Air conditioners use a refrigeration cycle to remove heat from the air inside a room and transfer it outside. The cycle works by compressing a refrigerant gas (R-410A, R-22, R-132A, R-407C, R-32, and R-290), which causes it to become hot, and then allowing it to expand, which makes it cold. This process cools the air passing over the coils, and the warm air is then blown outside through a vent or duct.

Among the refrigerant gases, R-32 and R-410A gases are widely used since they have a lower global warming potential (GWP). When these refrigerants are not handled properly or leaked into the atmosphere, they can trap heat and contribute to global warming. Also, the hot air released from air conditioning can contribute to global warming. The electricity needed to power the AC is generated by burning fossil fuels, thereby releasing carbon dioxide and other greenhouse gases into the atmosphere, which contributes to global warming.

The whole scenario becomes a paradox when usage of air conditioners is high in urban areas and the temperatures are going to be significantly higher than those in surrounding rural areas. This can exacerbate the effects of heatwaves and contributing to higher energy demand as individuals utilize AC for cooling purposes, creating a cycle of increased energy use and greenhouse gas emissions.

In ancient days, the AC was considered a luxury, but now it has become a necessity. It has become a ubiquitous part of modern life in homes, offices, cars, and many other places. It is hard to get rid of air conditioners completely. However, the Bureau of Energy Efficiency (BEE) has issued guidelines on maintaining a range of temperatures (24–26oC) for commercial buildings during the summer months. There are some alternatives, including solid refrigerants instead of gas/liquids, energy-efficient AC equipment, and some other measures such as light-colored paints, shading devices, the use of timers, and proper ventilation.

Cheers!

Stay hydrated!

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How much is enough?

Though the question looks simple, finding an appropriate answer is the hardest. If the same question is asked in terms of food, it is simple and easy to respond since it’s a quantitative variable. For example, how many dosas, idly, pizzas, or burgers are needed to satisfy the hunger, or how much money is needed for F.I.R.E.? These are quantifiable and can be derived from a particular number. When it’s of qualitative variables like

  • How much rest is enough to bounce back?
  • How much work is enough without getting exhausted?
  • How much progress is enough?
  • How much success is enough?
  • How much introspection is enough to build self awareness?
  • How much sleep is enough to feel fresh?
  • How much love is enough to stay content?
  • How much materialistic goods are enough?
  • How much time spent on social media is enough to stay connected?
  • How much focus on physical appearance is enough without getting obsessives about external validation?
  • How much travel is enough to feel alive?
  • How much exercise is enough without burning out?
  • How much time spent with friends and family is enough for a healthy relationship?
  • How much exposure to different ideas is enough to broadens oneself without losing one’s identity?
  • How much time spent on mediation is enough to foster inner peace?

The answers are subjective and vary from person to person based on their values, beliefs, resources, and priorities. I am not quite sure whether to try to find the answers to these questions or to drop into the deep ocean. There is a famous saying in economics that human wants are unlimited and insatiable. The constant urge to strive for more never stops, even when a goal or target is achieved. May be it’s just rooted in the genes. May it be or may it not!

There may not be a definite or consolidated answer to how much of something is enough. Yet, the act of exploring these questions and aligning one’s own values and goals with them can lead to greater self-awareness and a more fulfilling life. Though human wants are insatiable, searching for a meaning or a purpose in life is within our reach.

Cheers

Therapy!

Therapy is gaining popularity but faces stigma in Asian cultures due to different values, methods, accessibility, and approach to treatment.

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The most commonly used word in the modern eras. It has become increasingly popular in recent years due to increased awareness and understanding of mental health issues and the importance of seeking help when necessary. Thanks to COVID. Therapy helps us to improve the mental health and well-being and to overcome problems such as anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and other mental health concerns.

Though it is popular, mental health concerns are often not encouraged in Asian households and viewed as a personal failing or a result of moral weakness. There is a strong emphasis on maintaining the social status, which makes it very hard to admit the struggles with mental health or to seek out help. There are significant differences in the perception and treatment of mental health issues between Asian and Western cultures, despite the use of similar terms like ‘therapy’ and ‘healing’. Some of them are

  1. Stigma: There is still stigma that is attached to the mental illness and therapy in many Asian countries. As discussed above, it make it hard for open up with their parents and peers.
  2. Focus/Values: Collectivism, harmony with family, social responsibility, and interdependence are more valued than individualism, self-expression, self-actualization, personal growth, and independence as in Western countries.
  3. Methods: Mediation, mindfulness, Ayurveda, herbal medicines, yoga in Asian countries and cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychodynamic therapy, humanistic therapy, hypnosis, etc.
  4. Accessibility: Due to issues like a lack of mental health resources and cultural stigma, and access to therapy may be more restricted in Asian nations. In contrast, therapy is typically easier to access in Western nations, though some people may still have financial hardships.
  5. Approach: In Western nations, mental illness is frequently seen as a condition that can be handled through therapy and medication. In contrast, mental health issues may be viewed more holistically in many Asian nations, with a focus on the mind-body connection and conventional healing methods.

There are more differences in communication style, emphasis on dealing with emotions, and the role of the therapist. I won’t deny the fact that yoga and meditation are great tools, but their importance is lacking.

One more thing that I realized when I watched movies from different countries I understand that movies can’t relate to all the differences, yet they portray reality. I was fascinated by the roles of Dr. Stan Lipschitz, Dr. Paula Agard (Suits), and Dr. Jehangir (Dear Zindagi), though it is scripted. Very few movies and television series in Asian languages have scenes of therapy, healing, or mental health and some of them are Tamasha, Dear Zindagi, The Great Hypnotist, Kill me, Heal me, It’s Okay to Not Be Okay, It’s Okay, That’s Love.

Leaving movies behind, there are ted talks and podcasts of renowned psychiatrists that help us understand the importance of having a healthy and emotional relationship with oneself and others. For sure, that isn’t equivalent to therapy sessions but its good start. I have been following and listening to talks by Gabor Mate, Nicole LePera, Jordan, and a few other regional psychologists on various platforms lately.

Despite the difference, there has been a rise in awareness of the significance of mental health in recent years, and numerous Asian nations are making efforts to lessen stigma and increase access to mental health services. Social media are playing crucial in this. There are ongoing efforts to improve public education about mental health and lessen stigma following COVID, and more mental health professionals are promoting open and supportive attitudes toward mental health.

Cheers!

To do or To be?

A divided path to different destination
Photo by Jens Lelie on Unsplash

I came across a famous story about John Boyd while reading Ego is the Enemy written by Ryan Holiday. Boyd was a highly accomplished fighter pilot, and military strategist in the United States Air Force, widely considered one of the most influential military theorists of the 20th century. He is particularly well-known for his innovative development of the OODA loop concept, which stands for Observe, Orient, Decide, and Act. This model has been widely adopted across different fields, including the military, business, and sports.

According to the story, Boyd was approached by a young officer who was frustrated with his lack of promotion and asked for advice. Boyd said there will be a fork in the path of life you’re traveling and you’ll have to make a decision on which path to take. Boyd then went on to explain that those who focus on being somebody, such as seeking power, prestige, and promotions, often end up compromising their values and sacrificing their principles to achieve those goals.

On the other hand, those who focus on doing something, such as making a positive impact on the world or pursuing a noble cause, often end up achieving their goals. There is no need for compromises; one can be true to oneself and to others. It is more like developing a personal identity, purpose, or meaning in life.

Boyd reportedly responded by saying, “To be somebody or to do something. In life, there is often a roll call. That’s when you will have to make a decision. To be or to do? Which way will you go?”

Ryan beautifully emphasized the role of ego in the to-do part. The ego can cause us to prioritize goals and activities that do not align with our core values and well-being, simply because they may boost our self-esteem or social status. The ego crosses out what really matters to us and replaces it with what doesn’t.

Maybe it was easy to make a decision before, not knowing what everyone was up to. We want to accomplish things and achieve our goals, on one end whereas, on the other, we want to live a meaningful life and be true to ourselves. This is the classic dilemma of “to do or not to do.”

Finding a balance between ‘to do’ and ‘to be’ is a difficult process that requires conscious effort and self-reflection. It starts with identifying our core values, such as honesty, personal growth or compassion and then prioritizing activities and goals that align with those values. However, the truth is that these two aspects of life are not mutually exclusive, and it might take some time to find out which one you belong in.

Cheers!

PS: I don’t know either, figuring out!

I don’t know!

A picture of saying I don't know

Socrates declared that he knew nothing in Plato’s work, “The Apology.” In this work, Socrates is on trial for corrupting the youth of Athens and for impiety, or not believing in the gods of Athens. During his trial, Socrates was given the opportunity to defend himself and explain his beliefs to the jury..

When asked about his wisdom and knowledge, Socrates responded with the famous declaration, “I know that I am intelligent because I know that I know nothing.” He believed that recognizing one’s own ignorance was the first step to true wisdom and that his method of questioning was meant to encourage others to seek knowledge for themselves. Socrates’ philosophy emphasized humility and a willingness to learn, inspiring generations.

As human beings, we often strive to be knowledgeable and well-informed. We want to have answers to everything and often find it hard to admit when we don’t know something. Yet, saying “I don’t know” can be one of the most important and difficult things we can say, both for ourselves and for others.

Saying “I don’t know” can be a powerful catalyst for curiosity, prompting us to seek out new information and expand our knowledge. However, I understand that saying it out loud makes us feel little, ashamed and our hurts the ego, but at the same time, it can be a great motivator for learning. This can lead to personal growth, intellectual stimulation, and a deeper understanding of the world around us.

“The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance; it is the illusion of knowledge” – Stephen Hawking

Growing up with Asian parents, I had difficulty admitting things that I am not sure were considered inappropriate behavior. They would ask you random questions on a random topic and expect you to give the lengthy answer with the most recent data. Otherwise, you will be accused of your knowledge, degree, and schooling, including your brain. Just kidding, yet true in certain scenarios. In the tech era, all the platforms have been loaded with information and it is quite impossible to know and remember everything at all times.

There was some point in my life when I realized like I didn’t have to pretend about the things that I didn’t know. I was hesitant in the beginning, but I am saying it often these days. This helped me know, learn more, grow personally, and break down barriers between people.

“The more I learn, the more I realize how much I don’t know.” – Albert Einstein.

Admitting that we don’t know can be a liberating experience, freeing us from the pressure to have all the answers and allowing us to be more comfortable with uncertainty. After all, nothing is certain.

Cheers!

Escape FOMO, Embrace JOMO!

FOMO, or fear of missing out, drives anxiety and social pressure, but JOMO, joy of missing out, prioritizes well-being.

FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) is a strong desire and anxiety to not miss out on opportunities or experiences others may be having, particularly prevalent in today’s social media-driven society. The feeling of being lost in the tribe hurts more when we are missed out on trips, movies, fancy dinners, recent shows, music etc.

This can lead to the feeling of not living life to the fullest or of not fulfilling the standards set by the people on social media platforms. Anxiety, stress, and self-pressure are pushing the people’s limits, and they might go in search of happiness or success like their peers without knowing what they needed or wanted in the first place. Everyone falls into the trap of FOMO.

Social media content can include a variety of experiences, such as traveling, career success, and social events, such as trips to different countries, adventures, starting a business, becoming influencers, excelling in their careers, promotions, going to parties, reunions with colleagues, branded cars, clothes, watches, gadgets, and so on. This might tempt us to fall into the trap. 

I got introduced to the concept of JOMO (Joy of Missing Out) through Ankur Warikoo‘s newsletter. It is the opposite of FOMO. It is feeling of pleasure or contentment that comes from disconnecting from social media, taking a break from activities, or saying no to invitations or events that you don’t want to attend.

Feel the joy of being in this moment, Feel the joy of missing out – Ankur

JOMO prioritizes well-being and happiness over social pressure to constantly connected with others. Instead of feeling guilty or anxious about missing out, people who embrace JOMO recognize that it’s okay to take a step back and focus on their own needs. I still remember making stupid decisions due to FOMO and facing the consequences and it is really good to miss out.

It is quite common and normal to feel left out or missed out when we come across all these things on social media. It is also important to enjoy the present moment of having the people and things that we have around. This may involve setting boundaries and saying no to things that don’t align with your values or interests. JOMO is really great once you realize FOMO doesn’t bring any happiness.

Cheers!

PS: Enjoy JOMO just like kid above!

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Dream: Portals to Another Reality?

The fascination with the world around them and the quest to comprehend its complexities have long existed in human beings. Our capacity to consciously seek out and acquire knowledge about the outside world is what differentiates us from other animals. However, there are still many phenomena that science has yet to explain fully, and one of these is the mystery of dreams. Dreams can be vivid and realistic, and they can often feel like a glimpse into another world or reality.

Dreams happen during the Rapid Eye Movement (REM) stage of sleep, which typically starts about 90 minutes after falling asleep and repeats several times throughout the night, according to Matthew Walker in Why we sleep. The brain is very active during REM sleep, and the body is effectively paralyzed to prevent acting out dreams. One of the main functions of dreaming is to help us process and consolidate memories from our waking life.

Our brain actively replays and incorporates new experiences into our preexisting knowledge structures while we are sleeping during REM, which can help us comprehend and remember what we have learned. In our dreams, we might have more imaginative and creative thoughts because the logical and rational parts of our brain are less active during REM sleep. Dreams can also help us process and work through difficult emotions, such as fear or anxiety, by providing a safe space to confront and process these feelings.

The movie “A Mid-Day Slumber” reminds us how dreams can often leave us perplexed and searching for clarity as to why such dreams occur. The main character, James, behaves like a missing villager named Sundaram after a good afternoon nap. The situation becomes chaotic when James behaves like Sundaram after waking up from his nap and is unable to distinguish his own identity from that of Sundaram’s. This movie left the audience wondering if James had a dream of being Sundaram or if Sundaram left as James to live in a different entity.

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It made me think of the Butterfly Dream Theory, where the author daydreamed about being a contented butterfly but was unsure whether he was a butterfly in the dream or otherwise. There are many interpretations of this movie, some of which explore spiritual themes.

I’ll wrap this up with a Thirukkal that stayed after watching this movie.

உறங்கு வதுபோலுஞ் சாக்காடு உறங்கி
விழிப்பது போலும் பிறப்பு. (339)

Death is sinking into slumbers deep;
Birth again is waking out of sleep.

Cheers!

PS: Available on Netflix.

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