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Future Children: of Flesh or of Code?

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Disclaimer: Based on a conversation with AI, podcast and articles.

We live in a time where having a child is not just an emotional or biological decision. It has become a philosophical one. And slowly, it is becoming a technological one too.

This blog came from a late-night conversation I had with AI. I was wondering and thinking about something that sounds strange but is slowly becoming real. Will people still want to have babies in the future, or will we choose something else?

We are already seeing a major shift in how the world is reproducing. Global population growth is slowing down especially in countries like Japan, South Korea, and many. These are developed nations with high education and better healthcare systems. But still, their birth rates are dropping fast.

This is not a random trend. It’s closely linked to lifestyle and access. Studies clearly show that the more educated and career-focused people become, the fewer children they have. On the other hand, birth rates are still high among struggling or religious communities where children are seen as support or blessings not as a cost or choice.

#Wider Reproduction Gap

People with higher income and better access to healthcare now delay childbirth or avoid it altogether. Many freeze their eggs just in case. IVF is no longer just about solving infertility. It’s about timing and conditions of health.

We already have technologies that allow screening of embryos for genetic diseases. Soon, this might expand into picking embryos based on traits like intelligence, appearance, or emotional stability. Designer babies may not be a sci-fi fantasy for long. Possibilities! Cloning or growing babies in artificial wombs may follow.

Reproduction is becoming a planned, optimized process especially for the people with better resources.

#Cognitive Speed: Humans vs AI

While all this is happening, artificial intelligence is evolving at an exponential pace. A human child takes years to speak, understand emotions, build logic, and make decisions. AI, on the other hand, learns in seconds, improves overnight, and never forgets.

This brings a serious question! How will the next generation of human children keep up in a world where machines are already faster, smarter, and more efficient? Am I speaking like Bryan Johnson? Lol!

Some elite groups may try to solve this mismatch using tools like Neuralink or brain-machine interfaces (I heard this someone speaking in a podcast). If that happens, parenting might involve not just raising a child but upgrading them to stay relevant in a machine-dominated world. We don’t know if that’s good or bad. But we do know it’s a possible path.

#Two Different Baby Worlds

There will still be people who give birth the natural way without egg freezing, without gene editing, without AI tutors. That population may continue to grow, especially in lower-income regions. Children will still be born in large numbers where tech access is low, and cultural or religious values remain strong.

At the same time, tech enhanced reproduction may become common among the rest. Their families might be smaller, later, more customized, and possibly raised with the help of AI co-parents or robot nannies.

Over time, the world (possibilities maybe )could split into two parenting realities:

  1. Resourceful families: one frozen embryo, one AI child, maybe Neuralink-enhanced, raised in a curated environment.
  2. Natural families: multiple children, minimal tech, growing up in traditional settings.

This isn’t about who’s right or wrong. But the gap between these two worlds might become hard to ignore. Please read the disclaimer again.

We are entering an age where parenting is no longer just about love, survival, or tradition. It’s also about resources, access, cognitive speed, and the ability to prepare a child for a tech heavy future. I am not sure where this going to be. Some people will still choose to raise children the old way with mess, joy, and unpredictability.

Others may step back and ask: Is it worth it? Can a machine meet my emotional needs instead? Would I rather leave behind a product, a system, or a brain-print instead of a person?

The future won’t be childless. But it will look very different from anything we’ve seen so far.

End of conversation with AI, as battery drained (both me and the phone)

Hoping that AI helps solve the problems of life not remove humans as if we’re the problem (:P). I hope future generations still have both the easy and the hard problems to solve and find the meaning!

Cheers!

PS: Future is always uncertain!

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Oru Jaathi Jaathakam (2025) Movie Review

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Vineeth Srinivasan always has a unique way of telling stories but his movie choices are quite rooted in everyday life. Oru Jaathi Jaathakam is no different. I’m not sure if it’ll hit the same way for everyone, but it does have that typical Vineeth vibe characters who evolve, perspectives that shift with time (for instance Hridayam).

The film follows a 38+ unmarried man who’s trying to find a life partner through matrimony. He’s got his own set of filters strongly influenced by scripts and traditional beliefs. But as expected, things don’t go as planned.

The story has its funny moments, though I felt the humor could’ve been pushed a bit more. Somewhere in this search, he even starts doubting his own sexuality, not in a dramatic way, but as a passing confusion. His friend plays the classic role of enforcing patriarchal ideas, the usual you’re the man, don’t bend advice. Role of a girl who reads the palms.

But eventually, when things get too much, he just says yes to anyone who fits somewhat okay. The ending though, was surprisingly grounded. It hints that companionship isn’t about age, gender, or background. It’s about the choice two individuals make not what society expects. And the film doesn’t force that message on you. It just leaves it there.

In today’s modern dating world, this situation isn’t rare. The real mess begins when people themselves don’t know what they want, and so many layers to it. Not gonna add on GenZ terms here!

Overall, watch it for a light hearted take on a very real situation. Might not blow your mind, but it’ll leave you smiling. Maybe! Available in Prime

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Anxiety isn’t always the enemy!

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The word anxiety often sounds heavy, almost clinical. But truth is, it’s something most of us carry in quiet ways. And it doesn’t just affect you. It ripples out to the people around you. Like something to be achieved, fixed or feared.

Not all anxiety is bad. Sometimes, that buzzing feeling is what keeps you on your toes, nudges you to act, and stops you from going numb. But when anxiety freezes you when it traps you in endless loops of overthinking, it turns into a block. That’s when it needs to be redirected. But, can you escape it? I am not sure either in the world of judgements.

If you catch yourself spiraling or stuck, don’t try to suppress it. Channel it. Walk it off. Sleep it through. Write it out. Find what moves it from chaos to clarity. Seek medical help if it is severe.

Anxiety doesn’t need to be erased. It needs to be understood and redirected.

Cheers!

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Power or Money?

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In most philosophical or strategic debates, people ask, Would you rather have power or money?

But the real question isn’t about preference. It’s about how the game is played, who’s on the board, rules, rewards. lifelines and what the metrics of success are.

For those caught in everyday systems, the difference becomes clear.

The game of power is rigid. It’s played on fixed boards, where rules aren’t discussed but imposed. Winning isn’t about skill or offering value. It’s about knowing where to stand, who not to question, and how to move without drawing heat. One wrong step, disaster !

The money game feels different. It moves faster. The players are many. If a door closes, another can be made. Money follows problem-solvers, builders, those who spot gaps and fill them. It rewards what is brought to the table.

Knowing which game is being played is the real power!

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PS: Based on recent breakup, IYKYK!

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Why it all comes down to just two things?

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At the core of most things lies a simple structure.

What is wanted. & What is not wanted.

A clear binary, almost obvious in hindsight. But arriving there is rarely easy. Before clarity, there is distortion. Confusion seeps in. Expectations crumble. There’s disappointment, disillusionment, and the slow erosion of certainty.

Often, this chaos starts from not knowing the difference between a want and a need. Without that distinction, choices become tangled/messy. Everything feels necessary. Everything feels urgent.

In any space whether personal, professional, or internal, when one side holds clarity and the other doesn’t, tension is manageable. But when both ends are lost in confusion, the result is collapse. Mostly a disaster.

Still, the fall isn’t pointless. It’s part of the process. From that place, the binary begins to emerge. And once it does, courage carves the path forward.

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#DecodeAgri13: Who are the real buyers in agriculture?

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Agriculture in India is often narrated through the image of the farmer. They become the one standing at the center of the agri economy. Policies are drafted, startups are built, and innovations are pitched with the assumption that the farmer is the primary customer. But this isn’t the frame.

In reality, the farmer is not the one driving the market. The true economic forces that shape what gets grown, how it’s grown, and which technologies succeed originate from two other players in this ecosystem. The trader and the consumer are they key players here.

If you follow the flow of money, influence, and decision making power in agriculture, it becomes clear that the farmer is not the initiator of demand, but the responder. They are the price takers and not makers.

Small and medium farmers rarely operate with complete autonomy over what they buy or what they produce. In India, we have the majority of them. Their decisions are heavily shaped by external factors. This includes, what the local trader is paying more for, what crops their neighbors are planting, what mandi prices are trending, what might work in the coming season based on monsoon. In brief, farmers are reacting to market signals. They don’t always have the power to make the decision rather try to survive within it.

Now look at the other end, the consumer.

People in cities want organic food. Pesticide-free fruits. Fresh, traceable vegetables to add to their clean diet. Also millets. These preferences are loud and growing. The modern Indian consumer is shaping agricultural patterns in more ways than we see. Because of this, retailers and D2C brands or startups/companies adjust how they buy. They want certified produce (harder). They demand better quality. They’re even willing to pay more.

This demand moves upstream right from the store to the trader, and then from the trader to the farm. So, the trader becomes the first true buyer in this chain. They are the ones who decide what they will procure, what quality they will accept, and how they will price it. They set the norms for volume, timing, quality of produce, inputs and many more.

we assume that the farmer is the buyer. The apps, tools, and products for the farmer as if they are the ones making bold purchasing decisions. But farmers often don’t have that freedom. They won’t invest in new tools unless someone downstream is paying more. They won’t shift practices unless there’s a clear gain seen by people or at least by their neighbor.

This is why understanding who the real buyers are in agriculture matters. The farmer are important and nothing moves without their hands in the soil. In agriculture, it begins with the people who pay and more often than not, that’s the trader who procures and the consumer who consumes.

Understanding this isn’t just a mindset shift. It’s a strategy reset for the transformation.

Because in this ecosystem, the real customer isn’t where the field starts. It’s where the money ends.

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Why EVs have DMU in India?

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Few years back, we bought an electric scooter.

Like many early adopters, we were excited, lower running costs, cleaner air, and a little pride in doing the right thing for the planet. It made sense. But two years in, that excitement has been diminishing.

Let’s start with the obvious.

#Charging infrastructure. Outside of metro cities, it’s patchy at best. India had only around 12,146 public EV charging stations as of February 2024, according to government data. Now, funds have allocated to extend to 72,000 EV charging stations as of May 2025. And nearly all of them are concentrated in urban clusters like Delhi, Mumbai, and Bangalore. Compare that with China’s 3.2 million public charging points as of December 2024. It’s clear we’re yet to catch-up.

So even for a small scooter, we faced queues at fast chargers, and finding a working point during peak hours becomes even more hard. We thought the app-based tracking would help but half the time, either the charger was down or already occupied. Sometimes #charger too its attention.

Then there’s #support and servicing. Minor issues? Maybe weeks of delay. And forget long weekend rides. The range is pretty decent for city commutes, but extended use comes with anxiety, limited backup, and nowhere to recharge mid-journey.

What makes things trickier is the limited market choice. While the EV wave seems busy, the ecosystem is actually dominated by just a few players in the market. So buyers are often left with fewer alternatives, especially when it comes to after-sales service or product configurations. And most newer models have just 2–3 variants, often with minimal difference in top speed or battery range. For a buyer, it feels more like compromise than choice

Now we’re planning to get a four-wheeler. Ideally, we’d stay with the EV path. But when we list the pros and cons, we’re finding that the EV cons outweigh the pros.

Yes, environmental impact matters. That still sits on the conscience. But individual utility?

That first wave had its glow: government subsidies, bragging rights, cleaner fuel, and low maintenance. Now? No subsidies for many, more people on the road, and increasing load on a weak grid.

So even as EV sales increase, each new buyer is getting less utility than the one before. That’s classic diminishing marginal utility.

The next EV decision won’t be about saving the planet alone. It has to also save us time, money, and stress. Until then, the idea might remain in the showroom. Hoping it to change!

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PS: Not market analysis but honest customer review.

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When questions burn louder than truth!

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Some days arrive without warning. You sit with your tea, your breath, your silence—and yet something itches inside. A restlessness. A friction beneath your skin. You don’t know what’s bothering you exactly. But you know something is. It’s not a thought, it’s not a problem. It’s an ache of not-knowing.

And then, without any head-ups, questions crash through us.

All these questions were thrown to most of the AI tools that I use.

Below are the questions that led me to that space. Perhaps they’ll stir something in you too:

If the traits in astrology resonate with me, why shouldn’t I believe in it? Or if I should, how do I believe wisely?

What shapes me more—my genes or the habits ?

How can I learn about the traits embedded in my DNA?

So you’re saying I’m shaped by genes and choices, not stars?

But then why do I see patterns among people born in my month?

What about karma, fate, and recurring life lessons? Are they real or just mental loops?

What are humans without patterns? If I break one, am I not just forming a new one?

If the end of every pattern is death, why strive for healthier ones at all?

Is pain and fear subjective? If a so-called ‘unhealthy pattern’ brings me joy, who decides what’s good or bad?

How does one stay true to their nature when society demands constant improvement just to survive?

What is consciousness really—just neurons and hormones, or something more?

What if astrology is a field we haven’t yet understood—like gravity before Newton?

Are we just simulations in a matrix-like system? Could astrology be a symbolic layer of that code?

So what should I believe—myself, the universe, the simulation, people, or just hope?

Eventually, I reached a place, not of conclusion but of pragmatic agnosticism. I will try to cover up in the near future.

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The Art of Not Knowing!

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In a world obsessed with conclusions, certainties, and definitive answers, there is something peaceful (maybe) about choosing not to know. Maybe the most grounding belief is knowing that not having all the answers isn’t wrong. It make us human in this vast unknown. Obviously, it helps to navigate life. (Blaming it as, I wasn’t ready daa, lol)

Wisdom is not a collection of conclusions but a living with set of questions that never settles. It is not built on definitive answers, but on the ability to ask more thoughtful, more layered, more open-ended questions. Wherever, whatever, whenever truth unfolds, it should be met with clarity, with courage, with presence.

Uncertainty is not a problem to be solved, but a space to be entered. I know, it’s easy-peasy.

Some hedge, seeking safety. While others might speculate, embracing risk. Each choice carries its own flavor of reward, depending on the intensity.

The past itself is no stable ground. As explored in Uncertain, memory shifts, meaning transforms, and what once seemed clear reveals new edges. There is no map here.

Only the courage to live the question well. Courage remains the hardest verb to live. IYKYK.

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Why do we believe our attention is failing? – Part 1

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We keep hearing it, No one has the attention span anymore. And at first, it makes sense. Short-form videos, infinite scroll, distractions at every swipe. It feels like our minds are constantly pulled in a hundred directions. It’s become common to say people just don’t have the patience anymore.

A while back, I wrote a piece on how our attention span seems to be shrinking. But recently, while watching an hour podcast episode (WTF – Neil Mohan), I had a tiny shift in perspective.

Maybe attention span isn’t the issue. Intention matters. When what you’re consuming aligns with what you care about, focus becomes natural. No hacks needed.

What’s interesting is how many people (including me) unconsciously assign different digital spaces for different purposes. YouTube becomes a platform solely for podcasts. Spotify stays dedicated to music. Netflix for chilling and many more. One browser for work, another for personal curiosity. These small systems help train the brain to associate each space with a certain kind of focus.

Atomic habits says the same. The Reticular Activating System (RAS), our brain’s attention filter (still learning about it) picks up on these patterns. With a little intention, we can rewire it to make focus easier.

So yes, there’s a lot of noise out there. Digital world is crazy as hell. Our attention isn’t diminishing but getting distracted. it’s just waiting to be pointed toward the right thing.

The question, then, isn’t just about attention spans. It’s about why we’ve built our environments the way we have and why those environments either support or sabotage our ability to focus on things.

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Why does growth need solitude and interaction?

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There is an old and quiet question: when does growth truly happen? Is it in moments of solitude, or does it take place through interaction with others?

We are social beings. Relationships, conversations, and even disagreements shape the way the inner world is understood. Without others, many truths stay hidden. Interaction becomes a mirror. It triggers the parts of the self that often go unnoticed.

But growth does not complete itself in the presence of others. Solitude is where the dust settles. After a triggering conversation or a moment of emotional disturbance, silence offers space. In that space, thoughts rearrange. Meaning begins to take form. What was stirred by others slowly becomes clarity when left alone. Things will start to make sense.

Both are essential. Interaction begins the process. Solitude allows it to mature. Growth moves between the two, a cycle of exposure and reflection.

Even in the story of the Buddha, the world played its part before his enlightenment. Suffering, temptations, aging, and death were seen before silence under the tree was chosen. The trigger came from outside. The transformation happened within.

Maybe, it is not tied to a single place or state. It emerges in the movement between both.

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Why art always finds its way back?

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Seth Godin recently wrote a blog post few days back about 1000 fans. He spoke about how not all fans are helpful. Some fans support the work, spread the word, and care about the mission. Others complain, pick fights, and expect more than they give.

I thought about this after watching the Thug Life audio launch. Chinmayi’s voice was back on stage. And it was full of feeling deep, soulful, unmistakable. There were lot of tweets asking for her version of her. (Guilty here as well)

Whatever the reasons she was kept away all these years, her voice didn’t lose its power. It reminded me of something I wrote earlier: Art vs Artist. In that piece, I had asked whether we can separate a person from their work. Today, I feel something else: sometimes, we forget both the artist and the art.

Chinmayi’s return reminded me that good art finds its way back. True fans don’t just watch. They remember. They share. They help the work reach others.

If we care about something, we can’t take it for granted. We have to show up for it. Again and again. Movements only happen when people move.

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Why We Must Be Willing to Be Cringe at First?

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Life often feels just out of reach but it is always on the other side of where we currently stand.

We see people who have “made it,” and wonder how they got there. The truth is, they didn’t skip the awkward, uncomfortable phase. To reach any meaningful outcome, we must be willing to look foolish at first.

We must allow ourselves to fail, to get it wrong, to feel out of place. Yes, sometimes we’ll be cringeworthy. That’s part of the deal.

This stage of discomfort or the trial and error isn’t a mistake. It’s the doorway. But here’s the tricky part: When we’re in it, it feels messy and pointless. Only later in life or in retrospect, it all make sense.

As Søren Kierkegaard said,

Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.

It’s easy to hesitate, to avoid being seen trying. But growth demands that we cross that line of imperfection with intention. The cringe is necessary. It is the courage in disguise. But the courage isn’t in being reckless. It’s in being vulnerable while still bringing our best effort to the table.

Start ugly. That’s how the beautiful part happens!

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Tools, Not Gifts!

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Life offers no gifts. Not for goodness, nor for endurance.

There is no reward for quiet suffering, no medal for patience.

Instead, life offers tools. A heartbreak sharpens awareness, a delay molds resilience, a loss carves space for clarity.

Each moment, a hammer or chisel. What’s built from it is the only answer we could possibly get.

Not to wait, but to shape. That is the quiet contract of becoming.

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Paradise by A.L. Kennedy : Book Review

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It’s been a long time since I picked up a big, heavy fiction book. Honestly, I didn’t plan to read this one. I found it at a book fair, on sale. Something about the cover pulled me in. That’s how it started.

This book is not for everyone. I won’t recommend it widely. It’s not an easy read. It’s raw. It’s intense.

The story follows Hannah, an alcoholic. It explores her inner world, her family, and her partner. As you read, it feels like you’re inside an intoxicated body. Things are hazy. Reality slips in and out. The writing mirrors the confusion and chaos of addiction.

I’ve often wondered, can a book hold all the messy thoughts in our heads? This one does. It throws everything in. The pain. The longing. The blurriness of being lost.

Some parts are clear, some are foggy. Just like Hannah’s mind.

I’ve met a few people who struggle with alcohol. This book helped me see their world differently. Not with judgment, but with a bit more understanding.

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