Story Time #01: Layered!

I went to trim my hair few days back.

But I met someone who didn’t feel routine at all.

She must be around 23 (confirmed later). Young, confident, and full of energy. I started a casual chat boredom usually makes me do that. Slowly the conversation went deeper… into life, into the things people usually don’t say out loud.

She doesn’t hold a degree. But she has years of experience in her lane. She knows exactly what she wants. She goes to the gym, takes her supplements, takes care of her body like anything. Routines doesn’t drain her you know!

Her clarity and thought process shook me. She grew up in a village in tier-2 city where her parents wanted her married off at 17. In her family, elders had married as early as 15 and were already raising adult children. She could have followed the same path. But she didn’t. She said no. She broke the script and building her own rules.

I went in expecting just a trim. I walked out carrying her story.

Sometimes, women like her don’t need saving. They just need someone to listen and to say out loud! You’re doing damn well!

Some build islands. Some carve the ground beneath their feet. Either way, we celebrate every woman who refuses to be moved.

Cheers!

PS: All these happened within an hour!

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Cycle Syncing, Our Missing Map!

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A while back, I wrote about resistance.

That post was about the invisible walls we hit, physically, mentally, and emotionally. But there was one form of resistance that didn’t make it in. The biological rhythm of the menstrual cycle. This post is focused on basic science, how our cycle affects energy, mood, and stress, and how we can work with it rather than against it.

While talking with a few friends, it became clear that many of us live through the cycle without fully understanding it. I have thought these chapters to kids yet I didn’t give attention to the hormones and energy associated with each phase.

Not in a biology textbook way, but in a way that connects daily energy, mood, focus, and decision-making to what’s happening hormonally. We notice the bad days and call it PMS. We notice the high-energy days and assume it’s random. But the pattern is real.

The menstrual cycle is roughly 28 days on average, but can range from 21 to 35 days depending upon individual body type. Variability is normal. It is a finely tuned hormonal cycle mainly between estrogen, follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH), luteinizing hormone (LH) and progesterone. These aren’t just reproductive hormones. They influence brain chemistry, metabolism, muscle recovery, and even how social or risk-taking we feel. Yet I wander, how the crime rate of women is less. Maybe because they act like brakes? Lol! Jk!

The four phases,

Menstrual Phase (Day 1–5)

  • Ideal focus: Rest, gentle movement, reflection.
  • Hormones: Estrogen and progesterone are at their lowest.
  • Physiology: The uterine lining is shed. Inflammation markers rise.
  • Stress: Many feel more sensitive or drained during bleeding; this is common, but individual
  • Impact: Energy dips, many feel lower energy and more discomfort.

Follicular Phase (Day 6–13)

  • Hormones: Estrogen rises, FSH stimulates follicle growth.
  • Physiology: Brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF) increases supporting learning and memory.
  • Impact: Energy and motivation rise, mood stabilizes, creativity peaks.
  • Stress: Basal cortisol tends to be higher than in the luteal phase on average, but stress reactivity and recovery vary by person and task.
  • Ideal focus: Starting new projects, strength training, learning-intensive work.

Ovulation (Around Day 14)

  • Hormones: LH surges, triggering the release of an egg; estrogen peaks.
  • Physiology: Metabolism slightly increases, senses sharpen, social behavior heightens.
  • Impact: Confidence, verbal fluency, attraction, and social energy peak.
  • Stress: No consistent cortisol pattern is established here; some feel more alert or socially engaged.
  • Ideal focus: Networking, presentations, collaborative work.

Luteal Phase (Day 15–28)

  • Hormones: Progesterone rises to prepare the body for possible pregnancy; estrogen dips and then rises slightly.
  • Physiology: Body temperature rises slightly, recovery time may lengthen.
  • Impact: Energy is steady but slower; if stress (cortisol) is high, PMS symptoms appear mood dips, irritability, cravings.
  • Stress: Basal cortisol is generally lower than in the follicular phase. Some studies suggest greater stress reactivity for some people in late luteal, but findings are mixed. PMS/PMDD responses can differ.
  • Ideal focus: Wrapping up projects, detailed work, routines that comfort.

Objective cognitive-performance differences across phases are small or inconsistent and may vary with people. Emotional/stress-related shifts are more consistently especially late luteal are common.

When we ignore this rhythm and expect identical performance every day, it feels like pushing against an invisible wall. When we plan in sync with it, the same wall becomes easy for our to handle. It’s about removing friction and working with what the body is already doing.

Research, including podcast mentioned by Andrew Huberman, shows that even skin texture, immune response, and scent perception shift through these phases. I couldn’t recall the exact episode. I will attach it once I find. Even the episode on cycle syncing on Take 20 was good. Give it watch.

Instead of asking, Why is this a bad day? we can start asking, Which phase are we in? The answer often explains the mood, the energy, and even the craving for brownie at midnight.

Nature is not the obstacle and its hard to win against. She is the clock. And the more we read her, the less resistance we meet. Light late tho!

Cheers!

PS: Happy Periods ladies!

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SuperShe Island!

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Came across a post on SuperShe Island the other night while scrolling. It didn’t say much about the background. Something felt unfinished. But it pulled me in and landed here.

Turns out, the woman behind it, Kristina Roth, wasn’t from the usual yoga retreat kind. No bias here. Back in 2006, she started a boutique firm called Matisia Consultants in the US. Think business intelligence, ERP systems, digital transformation classic enterprise stuff. Within a few years, she had Microsoft and T-Mobile as clients. By 2015, her firm was pulling in $45 million in revenue. Forbes even listed her under Fastest-Growing Women-Owned Businesses.

But then, something shifted.

Roth started curating retreats. Small, private ones in places like Hawaii and Turks & Caicos for women. In 2017, Roth purchased 8.4 acres off the coast of Finland. Just trees, sea, and silence. She called it SuperShe Island. Four cabins, one sauna, open sky, shared meals, long pauses. It officially opened in 2018, hosting 8–10 women at a time. Not sure of cost details, eligibility (open to all or restricted people) and other details. And then, it vanished.

In late 2023, SuperShe Island was sold. No big announcement. The website is not accessible or live now. The new buyer didn’t share much either “no specific plans,” they reportedly said. Some online report claimed it got absorbed into a larger consulting firm. Some mentioned Akkodis (a global tech firm under Adecco Group). But none of them is clear. No press release. No trace of an official acquisition.

So here’s what we know. Matisia Consultants is no longer active under that name. There’s no public confirmation about what happened post SuperShe.

This isn’t a story of rise or fall. It’s just a phase or maybe a cycle. One chapter folding into another. People build things. Let them go and build another one. Not everything ends with a mic drop. Some just drift into the quiet they once tried to create for others.

And women who build something different even if only for a while are worth giving a shout out.

Cheers!

PS: No much info!

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The X² Club: The Search Begins

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Lately, I’ve been drawn to stories of people who build. Not just startups or agri tech things. Anyone who goes that extra mile on themselves, who tries, who tinkers, who gets obsessed with a problem. Builders, makers, tinkerers, founders. They fascinate me.

But here’s the thing, every time I went looking, I found only a handful of women. Maybe I wasn’t looking in the right places. Or maybe the stories of women who build haven’t been told enough. Or loud enough.

That question kept playing in my head! Where are the women who build?

The spark might’ve started when I read Becoming. But then, life moved on. Spark faded. I forgot.

Then few months, I picked up the autobiography of Nina Lekhi, the founder of Baggit. Even if it was ghostwritten, some lines in there? Hit. Made me sit still. Think. And that’s when I realized I missed these stories. I wanted more of them. More of her. More of us. Not motivational quotes or shiny headlines but just honest, layered, messy stories of women who build, lead, rebuild.

So I’m starting a little experiment. Just out of curiosity, not pressure.

It’s called The X² Club. Named for the XX chromosome. But also for the exponential potential that shows up when women build even quietly. This isn’t a grand launch or a perfect pitch. It’s just an idea born out of curiosity and the desire to spotlight more brains from the XX side.

Maybe it’ll be a series of posts? Maybe it’ll become a circle, a club, a community? Maybe nothing at all? But definitely not a rant page. it’s a start with an IG page.

If this resonates and if you’re someone who’s building, creating, thinking, or even searching or know the stories, I’d love to hear from you.

Welcome to X² Club.

Cheers

PS: Not creating gender digital war but celebrating!

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