Kottukkaali/The Adamant Girl (2024) Movie Review

The movie explores themes of caste, patriarchy, and interpersonal relationships through the journey of Pandi and Meena.

4–5 minutes

I watched this movie after being intrigued by the trailer and Soori’s role. He did an amazing role here. It’s a slow-paced film. If you’re looking for a clear plot or fast-paced action, this one isn’t for you. The story is open-ended and unfolds at its own pace

The plot revolves around Pandi and Meena, who are traveling to meet a seer. Pandi is Meena’s maternal uncle. He had been abroad for a long time, while Meena is continuing her studies. When he returns, he finds out Meena is in love with a man from a different caste. The movie is set in a rural village. They are on a journey to get advice from the seer, hoping to change Meena’s mind. The film doesn’t spoon-feed the plot through dialogues. Instead, it lets the audience think and understand what’s happening through the scenes.

In the beginning of the scene, Meena’s hair is oiled and plaited while she sits alone at home. A rooster is also tied to a rock, struggling. Both Meena and the rooster are shown as being tied down by the men in their lives.

The conversations between the family members are unsettling, even though they’re within the same family. The film explores interpersonal relationships within the context of culture and village life. The discussions revolve around how others might judge them. There’s talk about the family name being spoiled, in-laws being shamed, and a planned function being ruined. All these conversations are focused on how society perceives them.

One thing to notice is the lack of proper facilities. There are no petrol stations, no proper sanitation, and mostly barren lands during their travel. Houses are scattered, and the unimportant things seem more accessible

The sisters in the movie are the most vocal. They question people, ask Meena’s father to pay the bill, criticize others, and even advise Pandi. But when it comes to talking about menstruation, they fall silent. Are they still hesitant? Or is it still taboo?

While traveling, they come across a ritual being celebrated by a random maternal uncle. Meena stares at a poster. The movie gives you time to think: will Meena follow the same path as the women in the poster? Is this her last innocent smile? Or will she be allowed to make her own choices?

There are two children in the movie: a boy and a girl. The boy, who travels with them, is unaware of what’s going on. He enjoys his snacks and feeds the rooster and stay’s in his world. But he’s the one who cries when Meena is beaten badly. The movie doesn’t reveal a hint whether he will grow up with the same patriarchal mindset. The girl, on the other hand, seems brave, controlling a bull. It’s left to us to interpret whether future generations will be brave like her when Meena looked at her, or if Meena sees herself in that girl.

Meena’s character stands out. She prays silently, bears the beatings, and even hums a love song, suggesting there’s still love for the man she’s in a relationship with. Her role captures the rigidness, silent suffering, and strength to endure the situation. The movie clearly blends themes of caste, superstition, patriarchy, and interpersonal relationships. Meena has to fight against these strong factors.

Pandi’s character is complex. At first, he’s hopeful that Meena will change her mind. He tries to make eye contact and believes she will listen. But as time passes, and after seeing her pray and hum the love song, his hope begins to fade. His ego, fear of losing her, or possessiveness causes him to lash out violently. He loses control, and you can almost see an animalistic rage in him. Even the elder people, Meena’s parents. Unexpected! He did end up of explaining his rage to her father and her mother was ignored.

The ending of the movie is open to us to interpret. When they reach the seer, another family is ahead of them for consultation. There were families irrespective of status. The woman from the earlier family stands still, unresponsive. The seer performs rituals, and at the end, a rooster is killed and tossed aside, its final moments haunting. Pandi walks away deep in thought.

The seer calls for the next family, but Pandi walks toward them, lost in his own wavering thoughts. The movie doesn’t give a clear conclusion. Maybe Pandi saw himself in the earlier family, or maybe he realized Meena won’t change. It’s also possible that his love for her made him decide to let go. I am not sure tho! The film leaves it to the us to interpret what happens next. It is available in amazon prime. Give it try!

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Inside Out 2 (2024) Movie Review

The review discusses Inside Out 2’s exploration of new emotions in Riley’s adolescence, emphasizing personal growth and emotional complexity.

2–3 minutes

I was waiting for this movie to be released on OTT platforms. It came out on Google TV, but I didn’t have a subscription. So, I waited for it on Disney or Amazon. I have to admit, I missed seeing this in big screen. The quick recap of Inside Out 1, where Riley’s emotions were simple. They were joy, sadness, disgust, anger, and fear which explained her behavior, as well as her parents. The main idea of the joy to make sure that Riley feels happy and good throughout. However, by the end, Joy realized that sadness and the other emotions are necessary to navigate life.

For Inside Out 2, I wasn’t sure if it was meant for teenagers or adults. Some might think it’s just an animated film for kids, but I don’t agree. It helps explain how people act in different situations. When Riley reaches puberty, new emotions like anxiety, embarrassment, envy, nostalgia, and boredom appear alongside her existing ones. At first, the memories from the first movie formed her belief that she is a good person, kind and caring.

When anxiety takes control over the emotional control panel after puberty, Riley starts to predict and deal with the unknown. Her behavior changes to focus on what will help her in the future. Anxiety becomes the dominant emotion, pushing Joy and others aside. Joy struggles to bring things back to how things were. There’s a great line from Joy about adulthood: we have so much to deal with, which is why happiness feels harder to hold onto happiness all the time. Riley’s belief shifts from “I am a good person” to “I am not good enough” when anxiety take control. She worries about fitting in, even thinking, “If I don’t like that band, I’ll never be friends with them.”

The ending was remarkable. When Joy tries to restore Riley’s belief that she’s good and kind, Anxiety steps in, saying, “We don’t define Riley.” That line really stood out. Joy then adds that all of Riley’s memories, even the ones pushed to the back of her mind, contribute to who she is.

In the end, Riley is a mix of all her experiences. She is good, kind, selfish, and more. She accepts her true self, and the final quote was very powerful. But, It is also important to note that our sense of self isn’t static. It grows and adapts with every experience, which is just one of the factors that shape who we are!

I do wonder why emotions like excitement, love, pride, guilt, and loneliness weren’t explored. Maybe they’re saving them for the third part? If so, I’m excited!

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So you want to be a writer?

Bukowski emphasizes that writing should come naturally and passionately; if it feels forced or for external gains, don’t pursue it.

by Charles Bukowski

if it doesn't come bursting out of you
in spite of everything,
don't do it.
unless it comes unasked out of your
heart and your mind and your mouth
and your gut,
don't do it.


if you have to sit for hours
staring at your computer screen
or hunched over your
typewriter
searching for words,
don't do it.


if you're doing it for money or
fame,
don't do it.

......

if you have to sit there and
rewrite it again and again,
don't do it.

.....

if you're trying to write like somebody
else,
forget about it.
if you have to wait for it to roar out of
you,
then wait patiently.
if it never does roar out of you,
do something else.

.....
unless the sun inside you is
burning your gut,
don't do it.
when it is truly time,
and if you have been chosen,
it will do it by
itself and it will keep on doing it
until you die or it dies in you.

there is no other way.

and there never was.
Reposting From Sifting Through the Madness for the Word, the Line, the Way, the line, the way by Charles Bukowski (Source: Poets.org)

Found that poem through YT. It was inspiring! Hope it helps! These lines made me pause and think. They remind us that real creativity comes from a deep, genuine place. Bukowski urges us not to force it but to wait until we truly feel it. It’s a simple yet powerful!

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Hidden Expiry Date!

The content explains the distinction between perishable and non-perishable commodities, emphasizing that all products have a price and an eventual expiry or transformation.

1–2 minutes

Almost everything we buy has a price and an expiry date. For some products, we know the exact expiry date. For others, we can only guess when they might expire.

In agriculture, we classify products into two categories: perishable and non-perishable commodities.

Perishable commodities are those that spoil quickly. These include items like milk, fruits, and vegetables. For example, milk usually expires within a day or two. You need to consume it fast or it goes bad.

On the other hand, non-perishable commodities last much longer. Items like rice, flour, and beans can stay good for months or even years if stored properly. However, even non-perishable items can expire quickly when we change their form. Take rice as an example. Raw rice can last for years, but once it’s cooked, it must be eaten within a day or two.

You might question me with things like diamonds or rocks?

While they don’t have a typical “expiry date,” they still change over time. Diamonds are incredibly durable but can chip or crack under certain conditions. Rocks, too, last for millions of years but eventually erode due to natural processes called weathering and they transform into soil. Everything experiences transformation, even if it takes centuries.

This idea of expiry applies to almost all aspects of life.

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Sentinel

A triune formed by what's unsaid, 
Unspoken words hang around the air.
You dance around with our hidden fears,
Longing to bridge these unseen possibilities.

Keeper of secrets, yet misunderstood
How strange, this bond of secrecy!
That binds us, yet sets none free.

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Choices and Challenges

The debate highlighted women’s struggles in choosing between homemaking and working, emphasizing the need for societal change.

2–3 minutes

This is a follow-up to my earlier post. Please read that one first for better understanding.

There was a debate on Neeya Nana, a Tamil TV show, about homemakers vs. working women. The show was filled with women and two men. The educated working women group argued that having a job gives financial independence, spreading knowledge, and promoting inclusivity. On the other side, the educated homemakers emphasized the importance of parenting, home maintenance, personal time, and providing healthy food for the family.

Women have the choice to work or stay at home, but some are privileged while others are oppressed. Here are some key points from the show:

  • Men doesn’t have a choice of staying at home
  • Raising children is harder without a joint family.
  • Balancing work with family health and values is tough.
  • Mothers feel pressured to raise children while men remain the providers.
  • Society expects women to be the “perfect” mother.
  • Sons who grow up with a homemaker mother might expect the same from their wives.
  • Some women may idolize homemakers and stop prioritizing education and work.
  • Correction on the taboo around periods. Women should rest during their menstrual cycle if they choose, not be forced. Too much of conditioning on women
  • The working set up/ companies doesn’t offer enough space to look after the kids.

However, the show missed addressing some issues

  • Domestic violence and oppression when women stay at home.
  • Emotional manipulation and undermining women’s intelligence.
  • The importance of working if the husband passes away.
  • The ability to leave a marriage in case of abuse.
  • Some women don’t have the choice between homemaking and working.
  • Work as escapism to certain people
  • It shouldn’t cause conflict over the choices they make
  • The involvement of men in all these issues addressed was missing.

Apart from that, two men supported and sat on the working women side, but I’m not sure what they said. It wasn’t telecasted either. Both sides in the debate justified and projected their choices, but none mentioned the struggles women (as collective) face either way.

In my previous post, I spoked about how women are vital to the economy. Developed nations have more women in the workforce, with better daycare and healthcare systems compared to ours. It helps to simplify their role and responsibilities. However, women here, are often ones who face criticism if something goes wrong with their children/family.

While we discuss gender issues and increasing women’s participation in various sectors, real changes are needed at the grassroots level—from both men and women. In the end, real progress for women will only come when we stop framing their choices as right or wrong and start addressing the deeper struggles they face—at home, at work, and in society. True equality begins when both men and women share the responsibility for change. It is available in Disney. Give it a try.

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Spider Man

A heartwarming exchange between a curious adult and a child’s innocent admiration for Spider-Man, highlighting the importance of preserving innocence and purity.

His laughter spread wide, teeth gleaming bright
Eyes twinkling with joy, a heartwarming sight.
My heart felt warm, as I handed him sheets,
Filled with vibrant Spider-Man in his roles.

Curious me, asked why he loved him so
This champion who swings high and swoops low
He never hurts people or shouts in anger, he replied
Seeing no world-weariness or danger.

Answer flowed through, touching the nerves inside,
Leaving me wordless, but smiling with pride.
I ruffled his hair, gentle and kind,
Unwilling to cloud the peace in his mind.

For in his world, these characters shine pure and true,
Couldn't bear to change his cozy view.
Letting him believe in his spider-friend,
Protecting the innocence, hoping, would never end.

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Fresh (2022) Movie Review

The movie “Fresh” showcases the dangers of online dating with suspense and unexpected twists.

3–4 minutes

I shouldn’t have trusted IG reels! I was scrolling and came across a reel showing a dating scene from Fresh. So, I decided to give it a try. If you haven’t watched it yet, you should. It’s tough to explain without giving spoilers or hints. Please watch it before reading it any further.

The movie is about Noa, the main character, who pretty much lives alone. She has a close friend called mollie. The bond between her and her friend is great. The code word is love you and love you more between them.

Mollie encourages her to date, but Noa is tired of using online dating apps. Almost every guy she meets is the same. The movie starts with her going on a date with a guy who talks about women from older generations, but then makes her pay at the end. He doesn’t handle her rejection well. After that, she receives some inappropriate messages and gets irritated with the whole online dating apps and culture.

She seems done with dating, looking for real conversations instead of the usual shallow chats. She meets a guy at a store and gives him her number. They go on a date at a bar and really hit it off. Things move quickly, but Noa keeps her friend updated.

No social media, no Instagram, no X, and she doesn’t have much personal info about the guy. Just few things like his name Steve and a surgeon. Luckily, Noa snaps a picture of him and sends it to her. But these seemed like big red flags for Mollie. She gives warning signals, yet she is happy that she is happy.

The guy appears to like Noa, and Steve does a great job switching between different sides of his character. During dinner, while Noa is eating short ribs, he mentions that he doesn’t eat animals, but instead of just saying he’s a vegetarian, it hints at something much darker. I thought he might be a psycho, but it’s worse than that. There’s a whole community feeding on this—literally!

There’s also a scene where his wife takes off a prosthetic leg, hinting she might have been a victim too. She tries to signal Mollie to get away. But mollie persist on finding on her. At the end, she too became a victim.

Noa plays along with the Steve, using her wits to fight back and escape. still wonder why the guy searching for Mollie ran off halfway through. Along with that, why Steve’s wife did support, if she was one among them? Maybe, she got addicted to the taste? eww. Ena kandravi’nu theriyalanga!

At the end, she almost makes it out and escapes with the other girls. The friendship between Mollie and Noa is something amazing. They did lighten things up with some chats between Noa and the other victims, but I think the movie would’ve been stronger with a more serious tone throughout.

I liked the final scene where Noa finally gets a phone signal, and the first message she receives is from a dating app, asking, “U up?” Lol.

Overall, it’s a solid thriller. Fresh really does serve something unexpected. A taste that you won’t forgot. I wouldn’t recommend it if you’re sensitive, though. I almost threw up. It’s available on Hotstar if you want to check it out!

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Barnacles and their annoying nature!

Barnacles, crustaceans, attach with glue causing impacts on marine life and ships. Despite troubles, their resilience and adhesion are something interesting

4–5 minutes

Barnacles are the little hitchhikers of the sea. They are fascinating (/s) yet infamous for their tenacity. These crustaceans have been around for millions of years. Despite their tiny size, they’ve made a big impact on marine life. Definitely not to the marine organisms.

The History of Barnacles

Barnacles belong to a group of crustaceans called Cirripedia. They have been sticking to surfaces since the Jurassic period, about 200 million years ago. Their fossil record reveals that barnacles have been clinging to the shells of marine reptiles, other crustaceans, and even floating wood. Over time, they’ve perfected the art of attaching (should learn, lol) themselves to almost anything that comes their way.

Attachment

Barnacles are born as free-swimming larvae, moves along with ocean currents. But once they find a suitable surface, they undergo a remarkable transformation. They produce a super-strong adhesive, often considered one of the strongest natural glues, and stick to them for good. This glue is so effective that it’s even being studied for medical and industrial applications.

Removal and the Impact

Removal from Marine Animals

Removing barnacles from marine animals is not an easy task. For creatures like whales and turtles, the barnacles are often deeply embedded in the skin or shell. The removal process can be harmful or painful. Whenever I am watching the whales reels, i have urge from deep down of my body to starch (Pudingify) those barnacles. One of reader (G.) sent the videos of how it is removed from turtles. Too painful to watch! They might cause skin irritation, open sores, infections and more prone to diseases and predators. Anyways, they are done in two ways

  • Physical Scraping: In rehabilitation centers, barnacles are sometimes removed manually using tools. This must be done cautiously to avoid injuring the animal, as barnacles can leave open wounds susceptible to infection.
  • Natural Shedding: Some marine animals can shed their outer layers or engage in behaviors like rubbing against hard surfaces to dislodge barnacles.

Distress

For marine creatures, barnacles can be more than just an annoyance. Imagine trying to swim with several small creatures stuck to your body. I don’t why I am annoyed with these. Whales, for example, can carry thousands of barnacles, which can create drag and slow them down. Similarly, sea turtles often have their shells covered in barnacles, making it harder for them. Already the shells are heavy. In extreme cases, the sheer number of barnacles can even impact the animal’s health, causing diseases.

While most barnacles are harmless filter feeders, some are parasitic. The rhizocephalan barnacles, for example, infect crabs and can alter their host’s behavior and reproduction. (Upcoming ones)

Impact on Ships

For ships, the removal of these barnacles is labor-intensive.

  • Dry Docking: Ships are brought to a dry dock where the hull is cleaned manually or with high-pressure water jets.
  • Chemical Treatments: Anti-fouling paints and coatings are applied to hulls to prevent barnacle attachment. Obviously, some of these chemicals can be harmful to the marine environment.

This means that ships have to burn more fuel to maintain speed, leading to higher costs and more pollution.

Marvel of Glue

The glue of barnacles is a something amazing I believe. It’s a complex mixture of proteins and other molecules that combine to form an incredibly strong and durable adhesive. Unlike most glues (Fevikwik?) we’re familiar with, barnacle glue sets in water and even in the presence of turbulence, which is why barnacles can attach themselves to the hulls of moving ships or the rough skin of marine organisms.

The glue works by first creating a sort of primer layer that bonds with the surface. Then, as the barnacle secretes more adhesive, it builds a layer that forms a strong, permanent bond. The glue isn’t just strong but it’s also flexible enough to absorb shocks and adapt to the movements of the surface where its attached to. Maybe, that’s why its hard to remove.

Scientists have been studying barnacle glue for years, hoping to replicate its properties for human use. Imagine surgical adhesives that work better in wet environments or industrial glues that can bond materials even underwater. While we’re still figuring out all the secrets of barnacle glue, it’s clear that these tiny creatures have mastered a form of adhesion that’s far beyond our current capabilities.

A Love-Hate Relationship

Despite the trouble they cause, barnacles are also a marvel of nature (Bound to say). Their ability to adhere so strongly to surfaces, their ancient history, and their resilience in harsh marine environments make them interesting to study.

So next time you see a barnacle-covered rock at the beach/whale, take a moment to appreciate the complex life of these tiny, stubborn creatures and scrap them off the surface (lol). Appreciate the nature too at least they mastered the art of attachment. They’ve been clinging to survival for millions of years sometimes, quite literally!

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Malargal Kaeten (2024) Short film

2–3 minutes

This is a Tamil short film that runs for 40 minutes. I got curious about it after seeing a reel. The story follows a young couple who have lost their love. Even though it’s short, it’s engaging and thoughtful. The plot starts on the female lead’s birthday. She’s on her way to a singing performance, which is a big opportunity for her. But when she gets a message from her boyfriend (the male lead), she drops everything and rushes to Chennai to see him.

There’s tension between them because of their breakup, and she wants to fix things. Throughout the scenes, it’s clear she always put him first. The actress did a great job. Her eyes really conveyed her emotions. In the story, her expectations were simple, like wanting his attention or a jasmine garland, but it was obvious how much sleep she had lost over the situation. The songs also prefectly synced with the scenes. She tries to convince him, but things don’t work out in the end.

The climax focused on both their perspectives. The male lead points out that love alone isn’t enough in life, while the female lead wants love but doesn’t want to be used in it. In the end, she chooses to prioritize herself and buys that jasmine garland for herself. (Maybe Miley Cyrus Flowers could’ve played, lol)

The songs, realistic lighting, the look of the bachelor’s room, and how friends try to help the couple were well done. The male lead’s viewpoint was realistic, especially for today’s world, though more dialogue from him would have added depth and justified his stand. This might seem simple and not worth much attention, but it’s a series of small things that build up, just like what’s shown here. Communication could’ve solved some issues and understanding each other perspectives, wants and values, but some things just aren’t meant to be. Give it a watch. It is available in YouTube.

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The Benefit of Doubt

Summary: A psychologist’s advice on “benefit of the doubt” has impacted the writer’s relationships positively. It involves initial trust, setting boundaries, and the potential for positive change.

1–2 minutes

What a beautiful phrase, right? I started using it after hearing it from a psychologist I admire. He is like mentor to me and his advice has had a big impact on me. He doesn’t know me BTW. You never know who might influence your life. Check out his YouTube channel if you’re interested!

It is kind of trick that help me handle relationships. So, what does “benefit of the doubt” mean? It’s about giving someone a chance when you’re unsure if they’re being truthful. It doesn’t mean you should trust them completely, but you’re willing to give them the benefit of the doubt at first. If they keep showing the same behavior or patterns, that’s when you talk to them or set boundaries.

Sometimes, when you give someone the benefit of the doubt, they might surprise you and change for the better. And if not, at least you’ll know where you stand.

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Feel Good Ones!

The author shares movie recommendations, including “8 AM Metro,” “Tune in for Love,” “Turtles all the way down,” and “Drawing closer,” each with unique themes.

2–3 minutes

I haven’t watched any movies that make you think lately. I’ve gotten a lot of recommendations, but I haven’t made much progress. It’s been almost ten days since I talked about movies. So, I picked three good ones to share (you might like them, or you might not). These movies are from different languages and aren’t recent releases, but I watched them recently.

#8 AM Metro

This is a Hindi movie from India. I think we’ve all met people who come into our lives unexpectedly, do something good for us, and then either stay or leave. It’s hard to put labels on those relationships. Maybe this movie taught me that not all relationships need labels. From society’s perspective, it might seem like infidelity, but if you see it from the male lead’s view, it’s about hope for survival, and for her, it helped her rediscover her love for poetry. I highly recommend watching it

#Tune in for love

This is a Korean movie about people trying to live a decent life and move on from their past. The male lead has just been released from prison on probation for pushing his friend off a building (which he didn’t). He starts working at a bakery, where he meets the female lead, who is struggling to run the place. Fate is so complicated that they barely get to meet. I liked a few moments in the movie, especially when he captures life’s rare moments. I won’t say much more, but sometimes, life is just about trust and having someone to rely on.

#Turtles all the way down

This is an American movie that I chose to watch because of its title. It’s about a female lead who wants to be a good daughter, friend, and student but can’t stop obsessing thoughts of bacteria. Disclaimer: if you have OCD, you might want to skip this one. The movie is about how she navigates life with these struggles. There isn’t much of a story, but the script, questions raised, conversations, and science make you think. The idea of ‘turtles all the way down’ is explained well, and I think scenes from Young Sheldon fit this idea perfectly.

Dubito, ergo cogito, ergo sum – Rene Descartes

#Drawing closer

This is a Japanese movie (not anime) about two young people who are both diagnosed with cancer and share a passion for drawing. They find hope to live longer and endure the pain by being there for each other. The movie touches on relationships, desires, pain, and dreams. It might even make you fall in love with gerbera flower

Apart from these, I’d recommend Purple Hearts and The Hating Game for binge-watching. Once I watch Inside Out 2, I’ll come up with another post.

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PS: FI is based on Drawing Closer. If I missed anything, I’ll add it in later.

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Veiled

A woman conceals fear behind a façade, questioning others’ perceptions. Despite affection, she’s unsettled and seeks love’s true meaning amidst anxiety and inner turmoil.

She smiles, she nods, she plays along.

Deep down, there's creeping fright.

A paradox of thoughts wavers, she wonders.

Querying their graze, what do they see?

A hidden flaw or a charm of delight ?

Oceans of anxiety haunt her.

Their eyes weigh her every move.

Why does this feel like a heavenly hell?

When it is supposed to be blissful,

Is the mystery beneath refusing to unfold?

For every cheer, she remains untouched,

Disturbed, solicitous, lost in thoughts

Her breath held, she smiled nervously.

Though, their affection wraps her around.

She seeks herself through all the darkness.

A chalice of love, both void and full

To let their hearts pierce the wall of her.

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Raghu Thatha (2024) Movie Review

The movie discuss the cultural and language diversity of India, the protagonist’s struggle against patriarchy. While acknowledging the strong message, but questions its impact due to a mix of humor and seriousness.

3–5 minutes

I hadn’t planned on watching this movie this weekend. I was thinking of ‘It Ends with Us,’ but my friend, who already read it, advised against it because the characters didn’t meet their expectations. It’s been a long time since I read any fiction, but maybe I should give it a try again.

Back to the movie, I expected one thing but got something else when I came of this movie. Before I review it for my general audience who don’t speak Tamil, let me give you a heads-up. As we know, India is diverse in culture and languages. I won’t get into politics, but there’s an issue, or what I believed it to be, where Hindi, being one of the Indian languages, has been imposed on others to learn. There’s a common phrase often used as a joke to show someone when they are questioned in Hindi: ‘Ek gaon mein ek kisan Raghu Thatha..

In the movie, they used ‘Raghu Thatha’ as the title. It is Tamil movie directed by Suman Kumar. The story centers around a female protagonist named Kayalvizhi Pandian, a banker at a nationalized bank. She also writes inspiring short stories under the male name “Ka Pa” and because she believes people won’t read stories written by women. From what I saw, the story seems to be set in the 1970s, but I might have missed that detail. Kayalvizhi is an activist against the imposed learning of Hindi in Valluvanpettai but is open to it as a language if there is a need. She’s also against cultural rules that limit women (patriarchy). She speaks out against forced marriages, wearing traditional clothing at home, and how women lose their dreams after marriage.

But things change when her supportive grandfather is diagnosed with stomach cancer. She’s emotionally pressured into agreeing to the marriage because it’s one of his wishes. Tamil Selvan, an engineer working for the government on village electrification, meets Kayal on her way to work. He impresses her by reading books and appearing progressive. Due to family pressure and the limited choices offered to her, she sees him as the better companion, believing that he would understand her choices and principles. 

As the story progresses, Kayal is initially charmed by Tamil Selvan’s actions but later discovers that he’s a misogynistic manipulator out to take revenge on her once the wedding gets over. This reminds me of a scene from the movie Jaya Jaya Jaya Jaya Hey, where the female lead falls in love with a professor who seems progressive but isn’t. Back to the movie, Kayal finds a way out of the marriage by passing her promotion exam (in Hindi), allowing her to move to Calcutta and continue her writing. She also does other mischievous things to escape this marriage. 

Here are my thoughts. Kayal was the stole the show. Throughout the movie, there was a constant push for Kayal to be a role model for many young people, which she had to maintain as it could influence them. The movie’s explanation and comparison of Hindi and its impact on patriarchy were well done, but it didn’t leave a lasting impact because of the mix of mild humor and seriousness. I am sure how far will it reach the audience.

The movie showed how Kayal was losing her principles to escape the marriage but struggled to explain the situation to her grandfather. It was surprising that her progressive grandfather didn’t notice Tamil Selvan’s misogynistic behavior and was willing to sacrifice principles for the marriage. The supporting roles, like Alamelu, the bank manager, and Suneel, were well done. Especially, Kayal’s sister-in-law stands out, even though she was in just a few scenes. She kept suggesting using a lorry driver to solve problems by killing people (LOL). There was one really nice scene where Tamil Selvan’s mom stood up against the marriage and helped Kayal get away. Maybe, the role of Rangu could have been stronger.

I expected Kayal to end up in Calcutta as she wanted to be a writer, but the movie ended showing her at the same bus stop in the same town. The songs were good. The movie had a strong message, but I’m not sure if people will have the patience to sit through it. It might have been better if they focused on either a serious tone or full comedy. Give it try as it running across the theatre.

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